Work with me

To reinvent your life, career or business with clarity, confidence and calm.

If you’re a neurodivergent person or wonder if you might be - and you’re prone to burnout - here’s why…

When you grow up highly sensitive in a world that tells you repeatedly and in a variety of ways to be someone other than who you are, you unconsciously learn to bury who that is. To hide your sensitivities, suppress your needs, shut off your feelings and ignore the messages your body sends you.

This takes a lot of effort.

Living from this baseline every day, means your window of tolerance for additional stress is reduced in contrast to a less sensitive person. It takes less to push you to breaking point.

You’re conscientious and want to do the best you can at everything. And there’s so much you want to do! You are smart and creative with deep interests and passions that you take immense pleasure in getting lost in.

You care deeply about meeting the high standards you set for yourself and are eager to do the best you can for others. You give a lot of yourself.

As a partner, parent or business owner helping others, all of this can be easily exacerbated.

When things go wrong and your precariously balanced schedule is thrown off, life can quickly start to feel a struggle. You become overloaded and depleted of energy. You long for a break. For time and space for yourself. You feel frustrated by the demands of others when your own needs are at the bottom of a large pile.

The supportive tools and activities that once made you feel good slip off the radar. You can’t remember how to fit them in.

It’s hard to imagine you’ll ever return to confident, calm and clear on the direction your life is headed.

It’s time to reconnect with yourself and consciously design and create the future you want.

Let me show you how.

find your light

find your light

A trauma and neurodiversity informed holistic coaching programme

What is find your light?

Find your light is a holistic programme combining coaching with embodied healing modalities.

Over the course of this programme, you will connect with yourself on a deeper level and understand how to honour your needs instead of working against them. You’ll see potential and create change in your life which didn’t seem possible prior to the programme.

We’ll go through my “Design Your Future” process to (re)define your values, recognise and meet your needs and assert your boundaries, supported by somatic work.

You’ll uncover and process blocks with ease, inviting new perspectives that change your way of being.

This is deep inner work to create the capacity for external change in the direction of what it is you want, whether in your life, relationships or business.

Scroll down to see what’s included…

What’s included?

FIND YOUR FOCUS: pre-commencement questionnaire to uncover your challenges and intentions.

COACHING: 3 or 6 x 60 minute sessions beginning with detailed follow up reflections, actions and exercises sent within 36 hours and accessible via private client portal.

ENERGY WORK: 2 or 5 x 60 minute sessions combined EFT and breathwork to work at an embodied level on any blocks, 1 x 60 minute Matrix Reimprinting session envisioning your future, with recording provided, to relisten to as often as you like.

SUPPORT IN YOUR POCKET: Voxer/email access during office hours (Mon-Thurs 9:30-14:30) so you’re supported between sessions.

HUSH CLUB: Access to monthly group breathwork and on-demand library of breathwork tools.

By the end of the programme you will

  • Understand your needs and be able to confidently assert them

  • Know how to regulate your nervous system and manage your emotional landscape

  • Feel positive about the future and confident in your ability to continue to take action towards your goals

  • Have gained an arsenal of powerful tools and practises to keep you grounded

  • Have created a life and way of being which honours your unique needs and abilities, working with them instead of against them

Why holistic coaching?

Conventional coaching often focuses on purely cognitive approaches. Or looks at life/relationships/career as if one didn’t inextricably impact the other. When it comes to making significant change (and sustaining it) looking at the whole picture is key and consistent deep rest and turning inward is neccessary to support consistent action. Hence, my incorporating approaches which switch off the busy mind and connect with the body. Click on each of the modalities to the left to find out more about them.

  • EFT (aka tapping) is a technique which involves tapping on the face and upper body, which helps to reduce stress and anxiety and regulate emotions

  • Matrix reimprinting is a powerful visualisation process which helps to process difficult emotions and transform deeply held unhelpful beliefs into supportive ones

  • Breathwork is a form of active meditation which involves focusing on or altering the breath in order to elicit particular physiological responses. It has many benefits including trauma release and emotional regulation.

What makes my coaching different?

Trauma informed

My work is trauma informed. I access regular supervision and therapy. I have a network of counsellors and therapists I refer on to where relevant.

Neurodiversity informed

I am neurodivergent and, as well as my lived experience, personal study and training, have coached ND clients, as well as experienced caring for and living with neurodivergent family members.

Holistic practitioner

My coaching incorporates embodied modalities, like EFT, Matrix Reimprinting and breathwork, which improve nervous system regulation in ways conventional cognitive coaching methodologies can’t.

Divergent thinker

My neurotype enables me to see patterns, draw together seemingly disparate strands of information and problem solve in a unique and unusual way. I am deeply intuitive and attuned to clients.

Extensive network

When we work together, my network is your network. I connect clients with nutritional therapists, financial planners, marketing agencies, parenting specialists, counsellors, sex coaches, brand strategists and more.

Cultural sensitivity

I am respectful of lived experience which differs from mine. I honour each individual’s heritage, race, sexuality, gender expression, neurotype and body type. I have awareness of systemic barriers and refer on to coaches who could be a better cultural fit where appropriate.

  • Working with Rebecca changed my life. I was frantic and confused about my direction in life and business. Through our work, I had some huge realisations that allowed me to make shifts in both areas.

    Sarah, Consultant

  • Rebecca helped me to build my confidence and focus, she is attuned and intuitive, as well as bursting with life and passion. She has a great balance of business sense and open mindedness and is prepared to take risks which I loved.

    Ruth Lawson, Psychotherapist & Coach

  • Rebecca is an expert at what she does. She marries her deep intuition with skill to make you feel completely comfortable and gives a lot of value in a very short space of time.

    Amy Cahill, Co-founder Quick Fox Labs

  • Rebecca has helped me understand the journey my business and my expertise has taken so far and provided the space to allow me to move it through the bottleneck of scaling up and moving from a little business that provides steady income to a whole brand. I am very grateful for her guidance and the confidence it gives me to move forward and grow.

    Suzan Issa, Founder, Raising a Wild Child

  • I'm feeling much happier overall and far less anxious. I was feeling quite despairing at times and now I have a general sense of optimism, excitement, and adventure. I feel like I've got my mojo back!

    Katia el-Fakhri